In the digital age, part of our relationships, our conversations and even our identities is lived online. But this space, meant to offer freedom and expression, is increasingly becoming a ground for silent aggression. Cyberbullying, threats, public humiliation, non-consensual sharing of intimate content… gender-based violence (GBV) now reaches far beyond the physical world.
1. Behind every screen, a life that can be destroyed
Cyberbullying is today one of the most widespread forms of violence in schools, workplaces and communities. According to international surveys:
- 1 in 3 young girls say they have already experienced some form of online violence.
- More than half say these attacks happen on Facebook, WhatsApp or Instagram.
- Digital violence rises sharply during periods of intense online activity, particularly among teenagers.
These attacks, often downplayed, have deep consequences: anxiety, isolation, loss of confidence, dropping out of school, suicidal thoughts. It is never "virtual". It is real.
2. Social networks should liberate, not oppress
Digital platforms have become spaces where everyone can express themselves, learn, create and get involved. Yet they too often turn into zones of oppression where insults, emotional pressure and emotional blackmail are normalised.
These forms of violence are, however, punishable by law. In several African countries — including Benin — sharing degrading images, online intimidation and digital harassment are recognised offences that are prosecuted and punished.
Building a more humane digital space means:
- making users accountable,
- encouraging reporting,
- protecting victims,
- punishing perpetrators,
- promoting a culture of respect online.
3. Non-consensual sharing of intimate content: a serious and all too common form of violence
The non-consensual sharing of intimate photos, sometimes called revenge porn, causes considerable psychological damage.
- more than 80% of victims are women and teenage girls;
- nearly 60% then suffer repeated cyberbullying;
- many develop symptoms of post-traumatic stress.
This violence destroys family ties, shatters academic or professional futures and drives some victims into total isolation. The law is clear: sharing intimate content without consent is a punishable offence.
4. Breaking the silence: an act of courage, not weakness
In the face of digital violence, the best weapon remains speaking out.
Being a victim is nothing to be ashamed of. Witnessing it and staying silent is.
Secure reporting mechanisms exist, as do structures such as the GUPS (one-stop social protection centres) and the National Women's Institute (INF) to support victims, and organisations such as AMP BÉNIN and BougeLabs that work every day to prevent, raise awareness and protect.
Conclusion: building a more humane digital world together
Digital violence is not inevitable. It is the result of a climate of silence, impunity and trivialisation. Each of us can act:
- a message of support,
- a report,
- a reminder of the law,
- sharing good practices,
- listening with kindness.
Building a safe, free and respectful Internet is a collective responsibility. And it starts now.
